Buying a Home with a Partner or Spouse: The Conversations to Have First

House-hunting with someone you love can be fun — and it can also reveal just how differently you each define “perfect.”

Before you start touring homes, it helps to talk through a few key topics:

• Budget and comfort zone
  What monthly payment feels realistic (not just what you qualify for)?

• Non-negotiables vs. preferences
  For one of you, a big kitchen might be non-negotiable. For the other, it might be a three-car garage.

• Location priorities
  Commute times, schools, proximity to family, and lifestyle all matter.

• Timeline
  Are you willing to do projects, or do you want “move-in ready” only?

As your Realtor, I’m not just opening doors; I’m helping you navigate these conversations with less stress and more clarity. My goal is for both of you to feel heard, understood, and confident in your decision.